Maybe the cold arctic blast shouldn’t be a
surprise since I have always lived in the psychotic state of Missouri,
nicknamed Misery at times. We are enduring the days of wind chills, snow, ice,
cancellations, and danger of frostbite.
I am thankful that I no longer have to drive to
work in this kind of miserable weather. I’m a competent bad weather driver, but
other drivers make me nervous. I only drive in bad weather when it is
necessary.
Jim, on the other hand, loved to drive in bad weather.
He liked to “break” the roads, and if we got stuck, he knew someone would come
along with a tractor and pull us out. It suited me to have Jim chauffeur me
when our roads were drifted or icy.
I was never as confident as Jim when it came to
driving on slick roads. When he was in the early stages of dementia, I had him
drive me to work a few times.
As Jim’s dementia progressed, so did my worry
that he would wander off in inclement weather and die from exposure. As we
struggled with the nursing home question, Jim’s wandering was a big
consideration. “If he wanders off in the wintertime,” I told my sons, “we may
not get to make the nursing home decision.”
Wandering is common among persons with
dementia. Among the top dangers is that a person who wanders may die from harsh
weather exposure. Caregivers should be vigilant, especially during extreme
weather conditions. A precaution that can be taken for those who wander would
be to invest in a device that provides a location for the individual. For
example, a caregiver or family member could invest in a wristwatch with GPS
tracking for their loved one.
Falls are another danger associated with
wintertime. I was Miss Slippy-Slidey but Jim was sure footed. He
was always good to hang on to me to keep me from falling. After Jim passed
away, I was walking across the yard and slipped and fell on the ice. My feet
flew out from under me and I landed flat on my back, slamming my head down on
the ice. I told my sister-in-law that I “broke my head” and I didn’t feel like
it was an exaggeration.
Now, my
biggest issue with the weather is taking the dog out. When I took her out this
morning in -20 wind chills, I layered layers on my layers. My dog has a thick
fur coat and looks at snow as entertainment. She roams around sniffing at the
snow, running though a snowdrift, or catching the scent of some animal under
the hedges. She sets the tone for our outings and never seems to be in a hurry.
Last night, I took the dog out after dark, and
as we wandered through the freshly fallen snow, I realized that I had forgotten
my phone. I knew Harold was asleep on the couch and that if I fell…Well, let’s
just say that I was extra, extra careful.
Caution is good this time of year, but you can’t
afford to lose your momentum. Jim used to tackle the hills near our house by “taking
a run at it.” He said, “If you keep steady momentum, you don’t spin your tires.”
Think about it: building momentum and getting
good traction could be a life lesson.
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